TESTIMONIAL A
I visited Mrs. Ines Lazarević and I would like to briefly look back at her work and the way she approaches people. I was more than satisfied with the work achieved through the three hour long workshop.
Personally I found it interesting and fun because through some sort of playing and pleasant company we came up with some ideas and solutions for my issues.
TESTIMONIAL B
Everything was perfect and in place, however I think it all lasted a bit long.
TESTIMONIAL C
I took my team for a business consultation session with Mrs. Lazarevic. My hope was to improve communication and achieve greater alignment on common goals in order to be more effective and less stressed.
The topics that came up were much simpler and were not something I expected. All the assignments were concrete and easy to do. I was so invested I haven’t even realized how fast time passed.
On the other hand I did not like the option of additional services and possibilities because after the session ended I was overwhelmed. I did not have the capacity to listen to anything extra and it took me a week to process everything on a personal and business level.
Still after the session I feel that we grew more as a team and that I gained more rights as a team member.
I don’t take myself or my work, my contributions for granted. The same is true for other coworkers. Now I think about the boundaries towards customers, suppliers, literally everyone I come in contact with.
I realized that boundaries are a way of protecting ourselves without hurting others.
Nonviolent communication from the bottom of the heart/soul is a skill we practiced in the session and I believe that it should become a vital skill of everyone who communicates daily with people they respect but do not necessarily agree on every issue.
In addition I believe that the skill of negotiation is a business skill, but the ability to say something and that the other party “hears” it is a life skill. This is something that is contributing to those who wish to be first seen as a person and after as an expert.
After going to Mrs. Lazarević I can say in my opinion that the return of investment is 1 to 10. On every hour invested, you gain 10 more hours. For every dollar invested, you earned/saved 10 dollars.
TESTIMONIAL D
For the past couple of years Constellations have been my go-to method whenever something was bothering me and making me uneasy. Or when I just need a broader picture, a different point of view.
How it all began.
I was certain that I had my life in order but as it turns out, I was wrong.
One day I met with a good friend of mine. Her long time partner died and I wondered how she was coping so well with the loss. So I asked her about it. She said that she was going on Constellation sessions and gave me a recommendation for a Constellation facilitator.
I thought to myself “I don’t have a topic/issue” for Constellations, but I still called.
Even when the facilitator asked me what my topic was, my honest response was “I don’t know. But I feel I need to go and see you and the topic will reveal itself”.
Five days passed until I went for a session. I felt somehow excited but at the same time I had my restraints.
The questions I was asked were more of a “technical nature”, age, what I do for a living, marital status, do I have children, about my parents and siblings.
When the facilitator asked me about my marital status and children, I felt great discomfort and shame. I was divorce and I had three miscarriages. I was convinced I left all that emotional pain and sadness behind me.
So whenever I think that “something” is in a certain way, the Constellations and the “field of knowledge” reveal the true situation. They help when something needs to be seen and switch positions in order to gain harmony, flow and clarity in life.
It was quite hard for me to look at the most vulnerable parts of my life and myself. For a long time I hid them from everyone, myself included.
I don’t like to be hurt and feel ashamed. But I needed to dive into those parts of myself which are asking to be seen and are seeking my attention. I needed to express my deepest respect and gratitude for all the experiences as they are an integral part of me and who I am.
The benefits from the Constellations session were altogether peace for my mind and body and everyday synchronicity. In addition some of my long-term goals came true in a very unexpected and unusual way.
All this was an indication to me that there is no topic/issue which is not intertwined with everything inside me. Everything is connected, my desires, goals, hopes and all the small things without everything else loses meaning.
To me Constellations are a spice – sometimes the most valuable spice and at times very pleasant, but often not very tasty. Nonetheless it is something which has the power of placing my puzzle pieces in the right place. It is something that removes that sticky dust, and brings new meaning to my life.
Through the Constellations session I get the opportunity to say YES to myself, especially to those parts of me which I have kept hidden from myself. And saying YES to those parts brought what was best for me.
TESTIMONIAL E
Having met Ines 4 years ago was one of the most eye-opening experiences in my entire life. In our first meeting, she asked some questions which made me do a double-take on my life as it was back then. Some of those questions were truly uncomfortable for me to answer – mostly because I had no answer at the time. However, I was diligent to stick to it, as I had tried many things before and none of them seemed to really work. I literally had nothing to lose. Through our next meetings I was able to gradually comprehend the definitions
and implications of family trauma, family history, and some child-parent events that had a negative impact on me as a developing young person at that time. Eventually, Ines helped me tremendously in my recognition of these patterns and negative impacts, and she helped me mold another view of who I am as a person, what my place in my family was (and still is), and how to heal some traumas I’d carried from before. Family constellations was not something I was aiming
for, but it was THE method for me. As a facilitator of Systemic Constellations, Ines is very kind, patient, and gentle. She delves really deep into one’s mind and soul, which isn’t comfortable at first, but once you start to realize the potential it has, you truly open up; both to her, and to yourself (most importantly).
TESTIMONIAL F
My first encounter with the Constellations occurred right when I needed to close one chapter and begin another chapter in my life. With the help of this method I manage to make the transition as painless as possible. While using the constellations method and working with Ines, I noticed that it was a different, more advanced technique for developing personal potential and facing oneself.
Questions and tasks are challenging because they “demand” change and acceptance
of responsibilities for our actions.
To me it seems that group constellations reveal what is hidden, often invisible to the eye, and how it affects our life. Ines skillfully monitors the energy of the group and when necessary, interferes with the participants in the field in order to bring balance and best possible solutions/answer to a set topic.
Oftentimes one can receive personal insights from the group and from someone else’s “topic”.
While doing the business constellations and putting effort into getting the desired job, I learned to appreciate the time it takes to integrate changes into ourselves and truly prepare for what is coming. Moreover I accepted that the answer “no” has the same importance as the answer “yes”.
It seems to me that we all are connected by the invisible threads which, with the help of constellations, become a little more visible. This, I would say, also enables us to understand ourselves a bit better as well as the world around us.
I would recommend the constellation method to everyone and anyone who is searching themselves. To those who want to make friends with their own shadow and hear the truth that will help them live a life full of fulfilment and gratitude.
