Constellations are extremely creative and adaptable to each client’s needs. This might be due to their timeliness and changeability and the fact that they are omnipresent.
It is interesting to observe the way they unfold for each person differently. Because, regardless of clients personal differences such as age, origin, job, education etc., they all encounter similar issues.
Generally speaking those issues can be divided into several categories:
- work (jobs, career, education),
- emotional relationships (family, friends, partners),
- health (mental and physical wellbeing of the body).
But in more detail, everything is a bit more complex, or as we like to say tangled.
There is no universal “recipe” or set of rules that can be followed for similar entanglements. Each person is different and special, each person is a “product” of their primary family system with all its good and not so good qualities that shaped them just the way they are.
The attachment to the family and family relationships in most cases are taking place and are happening on a completely unconscious level. Meaning we do things, we behave, we live our life in accordance with the invisible and unconscious settings from our primary family system.
It is great if those settings work in our favor, but unfortunately, oftentimes the situation is reversed. This is when we encounter a series of complications and difficulties that lead to discrepancy in our lives.
Thus Constellations work in two ways: metaphorically speaking, if we don’t see a forest from a tree, they point us that there is a forest, and if we do not see a tree from the forest, they point us to a tree. After that we come out of the woods and start a new path at our own pace towards the goal that we set.
Constellations are signposts on our life path, which we take alone, but they provide us with all that is necessary for us to walk it to the finish line. That is our part of the work.
The desire for change itself is not sufficient, it is necessary to take action — otherwise we will keep on standing still in front of a signpost and look into the distance, without results.
